According to my sense of perception the topic has various number of points that can be argued on- An interesting topic indeed …!specially for this upcoming generation where everyone is holding his or her different views. If you conduct a survey on this particular topic it would sum up to hundreds of reasons of different people. If we talk about our Indian society getting married is considered to be an important event of one’s life. Moving on to some orthodox parts of India unmarried people are still considered as the society’s negative people, or sometimes our aged people call them ‘cursed’. There could be innumerable reasons that could be hoarded “WHY YOU MUST GET MARRIED”. But i have some rolled up certain important reasons which I thing are prior.
“It is not good, this state of mans being alone; I will make a helpmate opposite to him” . As long as a person is single, it is not good meaning not only is the person incomplete, but the entire Creation is also lacking perfection.
10.)TO LEAD A HAPPY AND CONTENTED LIFE
This image could be said as a perfect paradigm of happiness and satisfied life where the parents of those little children are enjoying with their kids irrespective of what is going on in the outside world. Had it been the couple were unmarried, this day would have been impossible for them. So, one must get married to lead a happy and bewitched life. Happiness in turn is an important factor in a person’s life.
9.) IT ADDS YEARS TO YOUR LIFE
Its very much indubitable when we are married we definitely lead an interdependent life in which the spouses do live for one another, this fact cannot be denied as in they have a reason to live, they are a family now with kids and they have be to for them at every instance of life. Had it been that you are unmarried , for whom will you live?? Getting married definitely adds years to our lives and makes us very much goal oriented. The picture depicts the care and affection between the couple although they are very much aged. Getting married adds years to you life.
8.) DEVELOPS UNDERSTANDING IN US
If one is married, he or she becomes very much understanding in the later years when the couple find themselves compatible, their arise certain points after marriage when conflicts may occur but the issues need to be cleared out immediately, when their is a good understanding between them, there would be no problem. It helps us to develop an understanding attitude not only with our life partner but also with the outside society.
7.) IT IS THE FOUNDATIONAL RELATIONSHIP FOR ALL OF SOCIETY
This fact cannot be denied that no matter wherever the modernization and this era of industrialization leads us but marriage is something we cannot escape from , every human race considers marriage to be an important and compulsory event in one’s life. No one can extricate himself from getting married no matter to which society he belongs to.
6.) IT REVEALS THE PROMISING ATTITUDE IN US
Be it any religion of any society, while the marriage ceremony we definitely have a ritual when certain promises are being made between the couple, the promises made in this event should be kept. In the later years we come to know whether those promises made were really true, the commitment made should be kept of course. It also makes the person reliable.
5.) MAKES US RESPONSIBLE
Getting married makes us very much responsible, the person has his family members, he has to look after them, care for them, he is the only person who should take care whether everything going on is smooth, without any problems every member in the family should be happy, he looks if anyone in the family is in need for something.
4.) THE GENERATION MUST MOVE ON
Indeed this is an important point to get married. Had it been if everyone is unmarried there would be only limited number of people on this mighty earth and henceforth there would have been no one to care, to share, and to handle our problems and to guide us like our parents do.
3.) RESTORES MENTAL PEACE
From the monotonous and hectic life at least family is the only place where one finds mental peace and can discuss his problems with the family members and get an appropriate solution to it. Our family also helps us to deal with anxiety and stress with which we suffer, given by the outside environment.
2.) RELATIONSHIP MANAGEMENT
Marriage indeed is the most important relationship existing on this earth. It helps us to maintain a relationship amongst our relatives or friends. Having a good relationship strengthens us, make us confident, happy and relaxed and being in a relaxed state of mind is the best feeling int he world.
1.) IT COMPLETES THE INCOMPLETENESS OF LIFE
The most important point is it completes us . It reduces the loneliness and the feeling that one is not whole. It reduces the dread of emptiness that lingers. You are only half until you are married, once you tie the knot , you are complete. It helps each other grow. It is a refining process and seriously its the best thing in the world an invisible magnet, a universal pull that human beings of like minds together.